I know that a controlling personality does not mesh well with good parenting. And I’m so much better than I used to be. BUT… my daughter is SO picky about her clothes- and especially her shoes...I find myself needing to deep breathe several times a day. And truthfully, I didn’t mind so much during the summer months when we spent all day at the park, but now that school has started… I feel the need to “control” her choices for clothing and shoes. I want her to look nice!
For Evelyn’s first day of school, I had bought a darling little outfit with matching shoes. Both Evy and I were excited about it. Unfortunately, as the first day of school approached Evy’s feelings changed about… what else? Her SHOES!
So, I let her wear her old salt water sandals to school today. These old shoes that she’s been wearing around all summer. The sandals did not match in the least bit… but she was comfortable and happy about the ensemble she had created.
And I let go of my controlling nature and allowed her to choose- so I’m kind of proud of myself. Baby steps, I guess you could say.
